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From Country Radio Broadcasters, Inc.- http://www.crb.org The Failure of Success Sep 28, 2009
September 28, 2009 I spent some time the past few weeks doing some research online about the history of Success. Yes, I know it does sound kind of boring, but I did come across an interesting change in the definition. Author Stephen Covey and some other historians point out that the first 150 years of the United States, the definition of success all centered on someone’s character. Those character traits were about working hard, being honest, showing respect and loyalty. The definition of character was truly one of unselfishness. Somewhere along about 60 years ago around the time of World War II, the definition of success took a dramatic change. Now, success in our culture today is defined by power, possessions and prestige.During that same era of when the definition of success was changing, Coach John Wooden in 1934 came up with his own definition. “Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of selfsatisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best of which you are capable.” How do you define success? Before you answer, let’s review your “Success Condition.” Motive Condition If you get where you are going, where will you end up? I remember something my Dad used to say when I was growing up when I would be impatient and restless. “If you can’t find contentment where are now, you will never find contentment where you want to be.” So, what will you have when we achieve our goals? Is all is about being selfish or allowing your goals to make you generous?Inventory Condition There is great song about life evaluation and reflection on the George Strait “Twang” CD called, “Where have I been all my life?” We all must get to a point where we evaluate where we came from, our current location and where we are headed. In the process, we must painfully come to a conclusion if we have used the gifts GOD has given us as toys or as tools to be the best we can be and help others along the way. If you are struggling with your confidence or fear on where you are suppose to be headed, take a moment to write down a few victory moments in your life. Those are moments when you stepped out into the land of the unknown and amazing experiences happened! Character Condition The first test of our character is to do the right thing even if it slows down our progress to succeed. Our character can only pass the test when we have to deal with adversity. If we compromise our character in order to get ahead, then we have actually been a failure. Cooperate Condition None of us can use the gifts we have been given without the support and cooperation of others. This cooperative spirit will also hold each of us accountable being successful the right way. Remember, a single snowflake is barely even noticed, but a bunch together can shut down an entire city. Here’s another excellent definition of success by Ralph Waldo Emerson. To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people And the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics And endure the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty, To find the best in others; To leave the world a little better, Whether by a healthy child, A garden patch or a redeemed social condition; To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success. I challenge you to not be a failure at success, but come up with your own “unselfish” definition and go make it happen! © Copyright by Country Radio Broadcasters, Inc. - http://www.crb.org |
